Time passes and the brain fails, in these times of ludicrous gamble for the "Best", We forget that life is much more than Desires, it's also filled with lots and lots of freshly baked, Dark Metamorphic Amorphous Illicit Literature. In Acronym that's "D-Mail"!!
means, marry. If you get a good wife, you'll become happy; if you get a bad
one, you'll become a philosopher.
Well that explains why India is full of Philosophy. Speaking of full, half of
the Indians are below the age of 25. And if the figures are right, there will
be approximately 313million marriages within the half-decade, assuming that
every Indian parent is strictly speaking, Indian. It’s nothing less than an endemic. Taking 125 million
victims every year, it’s clearly far worse than HIV, Cancer or Global Warming
Marriage for a man is losing his Bachelor's
degree and to a woman, getting a Master's.
The only thing is that both get equal marks
and a combined degree in B.ed. Well, the
riskiness is much more than Russian roulette. There's a 50 percent chance of fights
and a 100% chance of the man losing. 3/4th of the population are married and
the rest are successful. The statistics never lie. The scholars can never be
more wrong, Desire isn't the root cause of all Misery. Marriage is!
in marriages are a rarity these days, however, these days Feminist groups, I
fear, may start chanting slogans like "Why should boys have all the fun",
forcing governments to start legalizing Polyandry too. Soon, there will be
multiple husbands to multiple wives. And before you know it, Nokia's vision
will be fulfilled. People will be connected, indeed.
Indians are born for betrothal, just like sacrificial lambs. Sometimes, though, the in-laws turn out to be out-laws. The Dowry
system of course! Men are less expensive in the modern age than they used to
be. Back then, a standard fresh-in-the-market bloke could be bartered for at
least one Ambassador car and a few thousand bucks. Nowadays, due to recession,
we'd be lucky to get an Ambassador's photo. But the logic can’t be that simple,
definitely not in the motherland of Arya Bhatta and Ramanujan. The mathgoes this way...
Let A= family,
B= boy, G= girl, D= dowry
gives D to the BA, now that the BA has D, BA becomes BAD. The rest is GADBAD...
Well, I have witnessed several weddings, and being an avid member of the
Mingle Society), I had the privilege of saving
countless lives from Eternal Damnation or, at least 30+ years. Apart from
untying the chained animals, I have drawn out the blue-print of this bloody-red
institution. It's really simple. You'll get the hang of what a marriage is, if
you do it only once.
Censored Documentary goes like this:
starts with a baby girl being bornbrought
into the house by a stork. The first smile is the
Dad’s, for he’s the only one who's neither in pain nor in uniform. The smile
soon fades away into a train of thoughts. He immediately visualizes the baby in
the wedding attire, but then reality strikes him, she's too little, even for half quarter sarees. He
thwarts the idea, "Perhaps, Later!"
tender age of 3, the girl asks him, "Dad, why do boys have all the
fun?" He gently puts her in her prisoncrib
and once again visualizes her walking around the fire. And then it hits him,
"She'll lose count of the seven steps".
by, with the father being more and more overprotective until one day, his
imaginary wedding ring fits his daughter's finger. Alas! An End to boyfriends,
worries, late-returning-homes (by seconds).
It's then that he starts seeking the perfect groom for his daughter. The
conditions are too many to jot down, so I'll have to shorten the list:
The Groom's Parents must be well-educated, wealthy, tall,
dark and handsome.
If all of
the above conditions are fulfilled, there's no waiting for the celebrations to
begin, ofc there's the waiting for the auspicious moment, but it's only a minor
thing, unless your birth planet is mars.
(Sorry, Marvin the Martian and
NOTE: But marrying an inanimate object like your Smartphone or
newspaper before the actual marriage will negate the effects of astrology and
Nation didn’t achieve freedom until 1947, but even 67 years after Independence,
I believe that we are still bound, still not free, from domestic violence, from
blocked-websites, from population explosion. This National parasite named 'deathera marriagiasis' or Marriage, needs to be eradicated. Proper vaccines are to be given, and finally flower-girls and ring-bearers must be tranquilized. Stop this injustice. Start Living life!
I never knew I'd be the one doing this! I mean seriously, you kids can't even handle a long distance relationship?! If you can't deal with a thing like that, what'll you do with the tougher parts of life, like choosing between The 'Endoplasmic Ectoplasms of Schrodinger's Cat' Thesis submission and updating your cover pic on fb. Well, the open secret is, Long distance relationships are way easier compared to its icky sticky counterpart. Think of it this way, it's honeymooning, but with less honey and more mooning!
For those of you who're fortunate enough to experience this, let me tell you, don't fret. Let 'D' give you the cues to cure the blues. That's right, this post is dedicated to Long Distance Love or the way my Grandpa calls it, 'Love at Hindsight'! Without further ado, here's five tips to Keep in mind when your bitter-half is out of town. I only speak from Experience, Marilyn Monroe and I get along quite well, despite my being here (Banana Republic) and her being down South (Way down :þ ). Ok after that further ado about Marilyn, No more further Ados, The Top 5 are :-
5) Do What You Used To :
The biggest problem that arises due to Long distance is the sense of freedom and we all know what that did to the US. So my first advice to you is to keep up the non-sense that was already happening. Fight with her over the TV remote over the phone, Force the FIFA WC down her throat and/or make him sob over the hourly soap-opera (Sobbing because he can't watch Disney Channel). Not just Television, keep the nostalgia at bay by telling him how it annoys you when he leaves the toilet seat up, even though you did that. Or Yell at her for misplacing your car-keys, a thousand miles away!
4) Attract Suspicion:
Most couples fret about not being in touch with each other. Not knowing what the he/she's doing in their spare time. And It's quite understandable to freakout when they suddenly break out the news of them changing their toiletpaper brand from "St(i/u)ck here" to "Wi(p/f)e-out". Well I have the right solution to that, Start acting like you're hiding something, watch more of the desperate housewives but only when your wife's visiting! Make her doubt you. Only then will she start keeping a keen eye on you, or Hire one. That way you don't have to tell her anything, she'll already know. sixth sense? You betcha!!
3)Innovative Breakthrough Technologies :
We've already covered one in an earlier post . Have a WonderArm(#3) handy.
It can really make a difference. Just Stick a pic of your betterhalf's
head in the space provided, but make sure it's creepy enough. So that
you won't start doing weird things.And then there's always Facebook, Skype and Whatsapp to keep you company while she's offline. Share Pics of your outings with Friends, Family, Boss, Her Ex, his Ex
etc. In other words make her feel at Home, ofc while YOU aren't ;-)
2) Keep Communication lines open,When you're leaving home :
Trust me, When you love someone and they're far away, every conversation counts. Even the ones in which you're not present. That's precisely why you should get an answering machine. That way she can say anything she likes and yet know that you'll be there listening. NOTE: Make sure you set the "Automatically Delete After" interval to 1 hour or less. Lest you have to bear the torture. If you're one of the curious creeps who'd like to check out every message (if more than once, God save you!). Then let me give you a shortcut-mantra to know what to expect.
If the message starts with Honey/Baby/Love or the ilk, it means she's in the mood for a talkathon . In short, DELETE!
If the message begins with We need to talk/I have something to say, you're screwed. So DELETE!!
And when it starts off with How are you today?/Everything alright? It means he needs something, and you know what you have to do. DELETE!!!
1) When all of the above go Horribly wrong :
We have complete faith in all of the above. However there is a one-in-a-quattuordecillion chance that the above MAY not work out for you. In that special case, we suggest you follow our Guru and Mentor Baba Randi's advice, "Don't put all your eggs(chicks) in one basket." The language of course is quite parabolic so let me translate it in a way any Tard, Dick and Hairy can understand, by Name-calling! The Baba with his wise words said that 'When Negative Nacy and Moody Judy make Skype hell, get Whatsapping with Chatty Kathy!'
Well, that's all the advice I can give you at the moment. Also before I forget, to all the bad good-boys who've enjoyed their prom this year, Happy Father's Day in advance ;)
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